A Family’s Decision To Let Their Son Live, If Only For A Brief Time

Facing death can be hardest for a family expecting new life. Follow T.K. and Deidrea Lauxs journey after they learn that their unborn son has a genetic disorder called Trisomy 13. They hope the intimate look helps others understand and cope with infant loss. It is a sad story but shows how strong and difficult decisions are in life. On an positive note, the couple seems to be in a better place now.

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18 Responses to A Family’s Decision To Let Their Son Live, If Only For A Brief Time

  1. I probably should not have watched this. I lost my son Stephen an hour and 28 minutes after birth 32 years ago. It is still painful. God bless theses parents.

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  2. You will have your child again…..

    “Abinadi said, “Little children also have eternal life.” (Mosiah 15:25.) Joseph Smith taught, “Children will be enthroned in the presence of God and the Lamb; … they will there enjoy the fulness of that light, glory, and intelligence, which is prepared in the celestial kingdom.” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 200.) President Joseph Fielding Smith spoke very expressly on this point: “The Lord will grant unto these children the privilege of all the sealing blessings which pertain to the exaltation. We were all mature spirits before we were born, and the bodies of little children will grow after the resurrection to the full stature of the spirit, and all the blessings will be theirs through their obedience, the same as if they had lived to maturity and received them on the earth. The Lord is just and will not deprive any person of a blessing, simply because he dies before that blessing can be received. It would be manifestly unfair to deprive a little child of the privilege of receiving all the blessings of exaltation in the world to come simply because it died in infancy. … Children who die in childhood will not be deprived of any blessing. When they grow, after the resurrection, to the full maturity of the spirit, they will be entitled to all the blessings which they would have been entitled to had they been privileged to tarry here and receive them.” (Doctrines of Salvation, 2:54.)”

    “We may rest assured that all things are controlled and governed by Him whose spirit children we are. He knows the end from the beginning, and he provides for each of us the testings and trials which he knows we need. President Joseph Fielding Smith once told me that we must assume that the Lord knows and arranges beforehand who shall be taken in infancy and who shall remain on earth to undergo whatever tests are needed in their cases. This accords with Joseph Smith’s statement: “The Lord takes many away, even in infancy, that they may escape the envy of man, and the sorrows and evils of this present world; they were too pure, too lovely, to live on earth.” (Teachings, pp. 196–97.) It is implicit in the whole scheme of things that those of us who have arrived at the years of accountability need the tests and trials to which we are subject and that our problem is to overcome the world and attain that spotless and pure state which little children already possess.”

    https://www.lds.org/ensign/1977/04/the-salvation-of-little-children?lang=eng

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    • Peter's avatar Peter says:

      Joseph Smith try Jesus our Lord and saviour there is no others . I am the way the truth and the life no man comes to the Father but by me. John 14:6

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  3. Regena's avatar Regena says:

    You are very special. But u are right there should be no choice than the one made. I’ve been there. Our Rachel was gone 7 months in the pregnancy and went the full term because we felt she deserved our love and her dignity. Thank u for sharing.

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  4. Dk's avatar Dk says:

    My daughter lost a son with this
    Genetic disorder. It is very hard when
    You hold this beautiful tiny gift in your
    Arms and know he is know on the arms of God.
    And Chris…if you can’t say something nice
    And if you have Never dealt with this type
    Of loss…keep your ugly commits to yourself.

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  5. sara's avatar sara says:

    Thank you for sharing your story. I would have done the same thing even though the end is so sad. I lost my son 10 years ago. He was still born at 39 weeks and I would of love to hear his first cry or to see his beautiful eyes….all of the first things. Luckily I got a few days with him to create memories that will last forever. I miss him everyday so much but I know that he is my guardian angel. I love you LJ ❤

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  6. bobby miller's avatar bobby miller says:

    GOD HAS A NEW ANGEL IN HEAVEN…
    I HOPE YOUR DAUGHTER IS FINE..IF SO…PLEASE SEND ME A PICTURE OF HER!!!
    MY WIFE AND I HAS BEEN THERE…BUT OUR SON ONLY LIVED FOR AN HOUR…
    MAY GOD BE WITH YOU!!!

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  7. Valentina's avatar Valentina says:

    You are so great parents, sure, You’ll happy with your newborn child, bless You!!!

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  8. kuhn2011's avatar kuhn2011 says:

    Thank you for your story 😦 im sorry for your loss and thankful for your Joy!!!!

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  9. Chrys's avatar Chrys says:

    I lost a baby boy 33 years ago last month & vividly remember shopping for his coffin & burial arraignments while still caring him in my womb. I think about him often & it took several years for me to even accept it & move on, even when our next child was born, I was scared of losing him too. Watching this brought back everything for me. I am so sorry that they too had to experience this.

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  10. mirjam's avatar mirjam says:

    You are amazing! The love you have for your beautiful little boy is so beautiful! I am sure That you are wonderfull parents to the brothers and or sisters that your beautiful little boy will get! I wist you all the luck and love!

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  11. Mommyof5's avatar Mommyof5 says:

    Can we delete Chris’s response? This is how hate is spread.

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  12. Libby's avatar Libby says:

    Well Gos has a amgel in heave avens looking down on you guys fro caring for him his few days of life. I adore you fro that most would have just aborted but he got to feel the love between you Gus god bless you ans him

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  13. Libby's avatar Libby says:

    Well god has another angel looking down now that was the most sad thing I have seen he got to feel love from you guys I adore you for that may God bless you

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  14. Cat's avatar Cat says:

    Thank you for sharing…what a beautiful story..

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  15. Valentina H's avatar Valentina H says:

    God Bless you two, I suffered a loss and delivered my son sleeping. I admire your strength, thank you for sharing your story. It’s been 3 years for me and it’s still raw. So many people don’t understand, but we will see our son’s again in Heaven.

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  16. Joan Smith's avatar Joan Smith says:

    Your story was beautiful. As was your baby boy. Too perfect for this world…Some Angles God prefers near and dear to himself. I’m sure your little boy was one. You will always be blessed in life because you have such respect for Life. Wow ! Your Both Amazing Parents ❤

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  17. Elaine Nishime's avatar Elaine Nishime says:

    there is no sorrow greater than loosing a child …I think about the two I wanted so much…and lost . I deeply cherish the two that I have every day and never stop thinking about them,
    all of them…

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